On Tuesday afternoon, Beck, who is transgender and a retired Navy SEAL, was bound for Kansas City to give a speech to federal employees about gender sensitivity. It's what she does, since she stopped going by her birth name, Christopher Beck, wrote a book about her life as a member of SEAL Team 6 and was featured in the CNN series, "Lady Valor."

Beck told CNN she arrived at Reagan National Airport with enough time to spare, but not too much. Beck entered the security checkpoint, put her bags on the conveyor belt and stepped into the body scanner, as she's done countless times before.

When flagged for secondary screening, she took it in stride. She said she waited for one of two Transportation Security Administration agents -- a man and a woman -- to step forward and pat her down. Instead, they turned their backs to her and started whispering.

But to Beck, it was clear what was happening. Despite her makeup, long hair and low-cut blouse, the agents thought she was a man. It wouldn't be the first time since she began publicly living as a woman.

But it still was humiliating, Beck said. It never gets easier.

"I'm a female," she said she told them. "It's no big deal."

Apparently, it was enough to prompt the agents to call their supervisor, she said. When he arrived, the supervisor directed the male agent to pat "him" down in front of the security line, as everyone waited.

"These are my real boobs, he's not going to pat me down," she recalls telling agents.

"This is wrong. I'm a female, it says female on my Maryland driver's license. This is the real me."

According to Beck, the supervisor responded, "Then somebody pat him down."

The female agent stepped forward and did the pat-down, Beck says. After that, Beck went on her way, holding back tears. She pulled out her phone and recounted the experience in a Facebook post.

"I'm sad, for TSA, our country, our future ... Why is this so difficult?" she wrote. She noted the irony of her destination, to a conference where she would give a speech to federal employees on human rights.

The TSA did not respond to requests for comment.

Beck told the story the next day in her speech. Afterward, she said TSA employees came up to her and apologized. Not all employees are like that, they told her.

She believes it. She says she knows people who work for the TSA. Some of them saw her post and shared it with their leadership, who contacted Beck about the incident, she said.

She's glad it happened to her, a mature combat veteran who has steeled herself against the trials of being transgender, instead of someone vulnerable, someone who's starting their journey.

Beck hopes it becomes a teachable moment, a prompt for more training and education.

"The TSA does a great job 99 percent of the time. This is a 1 percent error," she said. "They have a tough job but they need to continue training and continue to do better."

A Canadian teen is making waves as his high school football teams first openly transgender player

Kennedy Cooley said he transferred to Halifax West High School in Halifax, Canada for his senior year because he’d heard that students there would be more accepting of his gender identity than his previous school, CTV News reports

The 17-year-old, who wants to become a graphic designer or a firefighter, said he was initially apprehensive about joining Halifax West’s football team. Once he did, however, he found that his teammates weren’t fazed by his presence. 

“I’d heard that a lot of the guys are like family. They really get along together, they all know each other, and they’re really close friends,” he said. “Everybody was so accepting, it’s amazing.”

Kennedy’s father, Robert Cooley, told ABC News that he hopes his son’s story will encourage other parents of transgender kids to embrace their differences. 

“It isn’t always easy, but at the end of the day, your goal as a parent is to make sure your child is a productive citizen in society,” he said. “When we look at him, we see that he is a good kid.”

Head coach David Kelly told CTV News that Cooley “seems to get along with everybody,” and is helping to give his teammates “a perspective that they probably would not have had before.” 

Even at a time when more professional athletes are identifying as LGBT, it’s still heartening to hear stories like Kennedy’s.

Jeffrey Tambor won the Emmy for Outstanding Lead Actor in a Comedy Series for Transparent for the second consecutive year, and much likeshowrunner Jill Soloway, who won for Outstanding Directing a few awards prior, he celebrated by paying tribute to the transgender community.

“Please give transgender talent a chance,” said Tambor, who plays a trans woman on Soloway’s critically acclaimed Amazon comedy. “Give them auditions. Give them their story.”

Recently, in response to Matt Bomer’s casting as a transgender sex worker in forthcoming film Anything, trans actress Jen Richards launched a conversation about the problems with cisgender men being cast as transgender women. Soloway told the Cut that while she doesn’t regret casting Tambor in the role, it’s essential to have more trans actors onscreen going forward, and Tambor shares the sentiment.

“I would be happy if I were the last cisgender male to play a transgender female,” he said.

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Danielle Bergan

The dictionary definition of my title words:

Transparent- adjective

  • allowing light to pass through so that objects behind can be distinctly seen
  • Easy to perceive or detect.
  • having thoughts, feelings, or motives that are easily perceived

Transphobic- Noun

  • Unreasoninghostility, aversion, , toward transgender people.

These are two seemingly different words beginning with the same 5 letters. Yet, use them in the same sentence and you’ll see a complementary use.

Heard this lately? “The transphobic politician ranted unceasingly about Emily and he was completely transparent about his fear and prejudice.”

Let me say that as a transgender woman many of us in our community are completely transparent about the changes that occurred in our lives which allowed us to become the true selves that we are today.

Do you know how much courage it takes to admit it, one, to yourself, then two, to family, friends and then the world around you? Believe me; for years never in my wildest dreams did I ever think I could be living the life that I have right now.

For years Trans folk have struggled with our identities, right down to the depth of our souls. Many of us were constrained by religion. This deep belief ingrained in us by our parents and generations before us, would not allow for such a person to exist back in the 50s and 60s. Yet, those of us who dared to be us, broke these bonds of perceived heresy, uncuffed our dreams and became liberated free thinking, free living men and women.

This was no easy deal either. Family relationships were pushed to the limit. While we had struggled with our dilemma in silence those closest to us had no idea of who we were. Acceptance of change takes time; days, weeks, months and sometimes years. I found that patience became my gateway to dealing with those who I knew and loved for years. While I wanted everyone to be as joyful as I was about being me at the start of my transition, it was a long road to haul and one still, almost 10 years later, dotted with many potholes.

Gratitude is my closest ally. It gives me reassurance daily that me being a clean and sober nicotine free woman is the greatest gift I have ever received. This is a gift that was forged by the transition of denial and fear into a clear minded, self loving woman. And the perceived male that was left behind was grateful that he no longer had to carry the burden self hatred and pain. He could simply now be. I thank God for this miracle.

Now this transparency of my life has been revealed in personal and professional ways. I wrote a book. My story (like many who are Trans) is a cornucopia of hardships. I am lucky that suicide did not capture my soul because many of us die in the face of transphobia. Confronted with a multitude of peers and family denial of who we really are even takes the strongest of us out.

Today, a transphobic Tsunami, deadly to those like me in its wake, has arisen. Religious conservatives, ignorant of anyone that is different, conjure up unrealistic fears, spewing hatred like a broken water hose, dousing normal perceptions and twisting truths into hatred. These ideas are then fed to the general populace as veiled truths about our community.

These are the people that we Trans folk face on a daily basis. Our community battles daily injustices at the local school district protecting our young, or in the Solid South through Jim Crow bathroom laws. We suffer with those in the medical community, doctors and nurses who are ill equipped to treat us. Even our existence is constantly questions in the eyes of many religions, including Catholicism, where I was raised. And yet, we move forward!

I personally will not succumb to these stumbling blocks of transphobic hatred. Myself and my community are strong with love from our families, friends and allies who now stand with us through their acceptance and love of us simply as human beings. This spiritual and invisible bond is transparent to us on a daily basis. We do not shirk or cower to transphobia, but instead we take up the weapons that work to educate those who may fear us. It is the power of knowledge and love that quells and triumphs fear. It is this loving of one another where the real power lies. The Transphobics do not know how to handle this pure truth. They try to bury it under more lies but in the end love is the power that heals.

I love the woman that I am! While it took years of pain, self hatred and denial in the shell of a perceived male to get to where I am today, I embrace the hope for the future. This is so much more important than the past.

This abundance is bigger than me, my community and our allies and in its wake our love will crush transphobic hatred into tiny crumbs and scatter them in the wind of our resilience.

The NCAA has pulled seven championship events from North Carolina, including opening-weekend men’s basketball tournament games, for the coming year because of a state law that some say can lead to discrimination against LGBT people.

In a news release Monday, the NCAA said the decision by its board of governors came “because of the cumulative actions taken by the state concerning civil rights protections.” 

“This decision is consistent with the NCAA’s long-standing core values of inclusion, student-athlete well-being and creating a culture of fairness,” said Georgia Tech President G.P. “Bud” Peterson, the chair of the board of governors.

The law — known as HB2 — requires transgender people to use restrooms at schools and government buildings corresponding to the sex on their birth certificates. It also excludes gender identity and sexual orientation from local and statewide anti-discrimination protections. 

The men’s basketball first- and second-round games were scheduled for March 17 and 19 in Greensboro. The NCAA will also relocate: 

  • the Division I women’s soccer championship scheduled for Dec. 2 and 4 in Cary, just outside the capital city of Raleigh; 
  • the Division III men’s and women’s soccer championships set for Dec. 2 and 3 in Greensboro; 
  • the Division I women’s golf regional championships set for May 8-10 in Greenville; 
  • the Division III men’s and women’s tennis championships set for May 22-27 in Cary; 
  • the Division I women’s lacrosse championship set for May 26 and 28 in Cary;
  • the Division II baseball championship from May 27 to June 3 in Cary.

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